What you just read above does make sense and I know there are others who may think otherwise but what I do know that a person who truly loves you stays around no matter how many times you have made mistakes or hurt their feelings. As someone who's currently going through hard time in relationship, yes I just said that. Just because I write and advise people doesn't mean I do not encounter these problems. I hurt my beloved girlfriend whom I so cherish and thankful for being in my life and was really looking up to us living life together until silly mistakes came in between us and was entirely my fault. I tried everything I knew to help but seemed like d more I tried the worse thing get and she was seeing no good in whatever I was trying to do or say. This was a hardest pill to swallow and clearly have got no clue how to deal with heartbreak in two years in a row. I considered myself a failure and do not want to try dating anyone again.
But after sometimes I started thinking of what next for me and how to get out of this mess I put myself. I seriously do not have anyone to seek counsel from which makes everything worse and people are thought were my friends went behind saying trash about me and not really be supportive. I moved out of apartment we both rent together because it was becoming so hard to spend single night in that little bedroom that suddenly seemed big in my eyes. It was more like I was seeing my girlfriend each time I lain in bed. Everything became so depressing and I barely eat food. So I moved into a hotel where I think things might get better but not exactly what I thought. I no longer earn money at this point since I lost control of myself and hardly hold my balance and little money I had on me was speedily going down. The more I tried to beg and amend situation the worse her reaction get. I was so devastated and confused. This is only girl I have loved extremely and she's just about flipping away. I went out drinking and staying out late every night.
No single soul call friends cares about me any more and was thinking how I used to run my ass off whenever friends got issues going extra miles making sure they were alright. The most shocking aspect of it was when one of supposed friend said why are you sounding like you are complaining. Nobody wanted you to solve their problems except for you who likes to solve people's problems even though they never asked you and you seemed to be enjoying it.
As a young boy I have had many friends who betrayed me in time past and still haven't learn enough lessons and then as human I can't stop giving people's chances just because someone else did some terrible thing to me in the past.
Nicole was someone I thought would never walk away from my life because everything seemed too real and comfortable with us. Not denying the fact that we didn't have any issues as young couple but they were all minor and we easily make up after everything. She was calm, relax, soft and loving girlfriend anyone could dream of. First time my heart was completely at peace with someone and then I said yeah, its about time. The only girl I have been with for months faithfully, committed and dedicated.
Many thing led to what happened between us which I do not want to go into completely right now and would rather take blames for all that happened. No one's perfect and lessons learnt in bitter way and there's only one thing right in my mind as I try to pen this down at the moment. If I ever get a chance to love you again I'd love to cease every opportunity to show how lucky I am to be with you and for love she has given me. I love you and would say destiny hasn't failed us yet. I'm highly hopeful of you in future and something would make you change your mind for me, us again because I've love you with everything about me. I miss you and hope life's is treating fairly in whatever your doing there.
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