Smile

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what's more painful is to love someone and never find courage to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet few wrong people before we meet right ones and we would finally know how to be grateful for that gift.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and romance in the relationship and find out you still care for that person. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never met to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes another opens but often time we look so longer to the closed door and we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with never say a word and then walk away feeling like it was best conversation you've ever had. Its true we don't know what we got until we lose it. But its also true we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance they love you back. Don't expect love in return! Just wait until it grows in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. There are things you would love to hear that you will never hear from person who you would like to hear them from but don't be so deaf as long as you hear them from the person who says it from their heart.

Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never give up if you feel you can't let go. Love come to those who still hope although they been disappointed. To those who still believe although they been betrayed. To those who still need to love although they have been hurt before. And to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again. 

It takes only a minute to get crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone but it takes a life time to forget someone. 

Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile. Because it takes only a smile to make dark days bright.

Hope you find someone that makes you smile!!!

Me and my...

Homies...

Today, I feel exhausted after two hours training and should be in my ever lonely bed sleeping but then I sat on the floor of my bathroom thinking. Cause I'm a thinker and I do this often whenever I took time to myself. So I got up to mirror next to me then I said to myself. Who among everyone I've met here and can refer to as my homie and what marks/effects they leave on me. I couldn't think of one thing precisely as everyone them has their own uniqueness and I'm convinced our meeting isn't by accident. But why are we friends and who would life have been without these people?

This gonna be hard but let me see how much I feel I know about these people I hang out with most times. What effects they do have and leave on others. Please I stand to be corrected constructively when my opinion says otherwise about anyone. It's entirely personal point of view. Now let's get going people...

First on my list was this man.

Dr. Ken Gadaffi

He's a jack of all trades and master of ALL. He's adviser to NOCC , Press Officer to BKFC and renown lecturer in one of  thCambodia's reputable University in PP. He's happily married with great kids and one of which is as tall as Dr. Ken. I couldn't think of anything much but I just realized I've got a lot in common with this man and I'm damn lucky to have him in my life today. He's the man I ran to when I'm running off ideas on certain pressing issues. Thanks for being an A+ effect in my life here.

Come next is...

  

                                   Shadrack and Bethany

Thinking way back, Shadrack and I used to be best pals. Hanging out and doing most things together. We argued and disagreed most times but def stick out for each other no matter what. Even thou we lived in different apartments but there was never a day of not cooking and eating together. We fight over food and clothes and not that we weren't having enough but we were just been boyz who refused to bow for each other. We have used one another to get to where we are today. This dude hails from my hood and there's a true brotherhood blood flowing in veins but two captains never sail in one boat. There come a point where we have to part ways to be captains on our own but love still wax stronger and better from distance. Today, he's  married to best woman in the world, Bethany. No doubt, she has been a huge positive impact in life of Shadrack. I love and respect them cause they 're pacesetters among us for being first marry. This two made me believe in my own saying "life begin properly when you find love and a true partner who would stand and support you in everything". Thanks guys for being you and I'm grateful for your friendship.

In da crew is...

Cathy

Well, this mixed babe from Mexico and America is no doubt a huge person in life today. When road was rough and tough and almost unbearable she was there for me. She's a smart and intelligent person. No wonder she's a wine GURU! She's the brain behind all our footage. Anyone who messes with her mess with me so guyz be warned :) Somehow she has assumed position of CEO of our intend entertainment production. Watch out PP. For all you've done, still doing and going to do, I say thank you Cathy and just so you know, I appreciate our friendship so much.

WAIT! Area.... Warri...

                                       Paris and Stella 

This man in his way is like Nelson Mandele. He leads from behind and he stands for what's right regardless of anything happening. He's married to a former coworker Ms. Stella and their union has been blessed with beautiful kid. Paris called me one day to say... Bro, your my OWN and forget what we do/say outside. we're family and will always remain as family. Thanks for your words and being there always. One love!

Pele boy...

                                              Kenny 

This dude is special to me. He has his way into me and see him as blood brother. I left shore of Naija with him and since then we have been great together. He has amazing charisma which I believe will take him far in life. Strong midfield player. He has played for bother for PPCFC, Nagaworld among others. 

Hmm....

                                              Apollo

This aboki here is the most sort after footballer in our group but no strength cause he would make sure he attend all functions in and around PP :) Bros is na I joke I dey ooh. Anyway, Apollo is the first hausa man I have as a friend from my dear country. And he made me believe not all Hausas carries dangga! He has a good heart and he's always himself. Man, you've earned my respect long time ago and appreciate our friendship.  

The marathon runner is next...

                                     Maggie and Cesar 

Maggie is my first Kenya friend ever. She's lovely and ever smiling lady. We met few years ago here in PP. She's a non stop hip pop dancer and of course Afro-beats. Her long term dude Cesar is my good friend too. This two are so adorable and I'm more than happy for having them as friends today. Thanks guys!

Brothers from same state...

                             Eazy, Kevwe and Zagaworld

These guys hails from same state as me. The big heart state. We disagree and agreed and brotherhood stands stronger each day. Kevwe is a good guy with a beautiful and caring lady as wife. He's kinda controversial sometimes but that's his way and I respect him. Zagaworld is the shortest man among the brothers and he likes BIG things :) I like him cause a hard fighter (working hard). He has a very weird dance step and if your not in family, sorry you can't see this. Damn, he's got big d*** between his legs. Eazy! This blunt and loud talker is a student studying Int'l Relations in a university. Kinda stubborn but only for a good cause. Their best hobby as I knowing is cooking and if i have to pick the best, I'll pick Eazy. He's cooking is way far than Igwe and Oshare. Thanks guyz for being there and ii appreciate all you have done for me here.

Sihanoukville connection follows...

                                            Abidayo

Abby and Dayo are from the states taking a break from work. So I met this wonderful couple traveling around Cambodia....on motor bike. They rode their way from Siem Reap to PP and then Sihanoukville where we first met. The amazing thing about their journey is that they never intend spending much time here but for love and care they have for us, they have been with us for months now and still going. 

There's one thing I learn from this two. Love and trust! Abby would talk to almost everyone in a bar and danced with strange faces without thinking of her man. Same goes with Dayo except that he sit/stand in a spot watching and interacting with people. I asked one time. Do you ever get worried  when your wife go missing in a crowd? His reply was NOPE! Cause at end of everything, they both head to get kitty Perry pizza on street 51 then out to complete last gig of the night at home. Thanks Abidayo for trusting on us and sharing kingdom of wonders with us. 

Please meet the Skelewu men!

                                   Tomasz aka Sankara

Sankara is very entertaining and fun to hang out with. When he's high he remove his underwear in front everyone then next thing is dancing. He's good looking dude and a ladies man. He speaks over five languages and that what I admire most about him. He also walks like someone with gonocaucus :) please ignore my words if you don't know what that means. Thanks dude for a friend.

                    Malachy aka Oduamadi alias Peter calabar

This one is someone i have a transferred love for. He's a kid brother to a very good friend who believe and trust me. This self proclaim wise man is a great cook too. I like him for just one thing. Never give up spirit. Keep it up man. Life's opening up for you gradually and your twin babies are close to be born into this amazing world. Congratulations to both of you and may God grant Kat safe delievry-Amen!

Meet the queen of feather from Nederland...

                                        Anouk Plan B

Creativity is something I'm crazy about and when I see anyone doing it, I feel challenged. This self proclaim "queen of Nederland" design ladies ear rings with feathers. They look good on her thou but here's what I first thought of her crazy fashion mind. Back in Africa, most people use and wear feathers only in festive period. They're kinda scaring and spiritual and everyone is afraid of them. They are known as Igbe people. They spray powder and horrible perfumes around just to intermediate. But after knowing Plan B more, I realized it's just her creativeness and no string attached. Except that she has snake as pet. Oyibo people self :)

Warri connection #1

                                      Fred aka Oshare

This man is a least person I expect to meet here. He's a big name from home. I used to watch him play from ground stand. He had it big then and meeting again was like WOW! Popularly known as Oshare, is a great brother. Regardless of age difference, this dude will make food in his apartment then bring it to my place cause he thought I'm not eating well as I should and he forbids me from eating what he call white people foods. According to him, those food do not produce enough energy for me. 

Fred has a very weird likes that I find really funny. He enjoy taking photos of himself often and even when in bathroom or toilet. His mobile phone is the busiest ever in PP. WTF! He has longest throwing in field of football with a very slow running pace.  He enjoys cooking and eating with brothers. 

To you I say thank you for all the good food you've been feeding me. One love bro.

                                Olisaemeka and Kingsley 

Olisa has long been a friend since I first got to PP. This HOT shoot shooter is peaceful and very attentive person. He has played football across SEA with his last stroll in Thailand till injury forced him outta game. Maybe we're gonna organize charity for him to perform long awaiting surgery :) 

Then Kayboy as his fondly call by friends. He has underground dancing steps. Something similar to popular Yoruba singer call Pasuma in Lagos. They dance only between the kneel and ground. He's a very prolific central forward and has placed for PPCFC.

Just a way of saying thank you and I really value my friendship and brotherhood with y'll and pray God to strengthen this bond than where we are now. There're more to life than we've all seen or experienced. Stay safe and God bless...

Your humble friend and brother,

Harry!   

 

ADD...

I can't sing but I'm gonna work hard for you to like me
Didn't dream cause if I failed then I might be 
What they say I was. Could I ever say I did?
Tell yay now that I'm 2nd to admit it's insecure.
I can't understand the application, if I applied myself
I guess there would be no situation...
But who teaches who? When everyday's a substitute
I tried to plant LOVE but it never took root.
My soul got weeds and the roots are too deep
The roots don't sail cause the roots are too deep
WAIT! ADD see my roots too deep. 
A kid too afraid to close his eyes and sleep.
Can't you hear me stutter every time I speak?
Fear, shame, disappointment and heartbreak said hello 
When SHE left me weak....
Loved me and left me with abandonment issues.
Pain's a secret but it illuminates in me then 
It creates a menu in and within me...
It puts sadness and disappointment on my plates.
You don't know till later how much ever I eat of it now.
I'm watching my weight. Will this be my hardest lesson?
But if it's not, then I'm on to the next one 
Hoping I might get lucky then erased all my sadness 
And broken heart stories. But then no giving up 
Even as fear of ever getting hurt again slowly settles in...
So I say hello FEAR, it's about time we speak.
I'm so gonna kick you outta my life and turn everything 
Around for good and redefined my LOVE life again.
It may take a while cause our roots runs deep...
But before you leave...

I want all those things you took from me back!


This is for someone I love and care about and can't have for some unreasonable facts.You know yourself! You'll always remain part of my life. 

Let them say

Sometimes it's best we pay deaf ears to what people say or do

You saved me!

When everyone is gone away
I can always count on you to be right there
And when I felt like giving up
You were always there to push me on
And when I fell to the floor and no one cares
You stretched your hands out and pulled me up
You saved me and you were there when I called
You found me when I was lost
You gave me hope when there was none for me
You showed me what LOVE is when you saved me
You also showed me how to love when you saved me

Thank you! Thank you!! Thank you!!!

Help nothing is so small..

The story of an honest and amazing Cambodian man. His name's Mr. Riem, a Tuk Tuk driver in PP. He has a sweet wife Ms. Thida, 21years old daughter Ms. Srey Neath and 13years old Mr. Chettra son who study in local high school but wish to attend modern English school just like every other kids in the environs. They have lost all they had recently for being in a tight condition and now they need our help to get back to their normal life where things were literally alright.

Please, whatever you can give, no amount is too small and your little contributions will go along way in restoring this family. Thank you and God will reward your generosity mind.

Doing my things

This is me trying to make a video advert for an event. I actually this was not recorded for broadcasting however crew member did without seeking my consent so just have to let it go as we're still learning and growing as potential agency.

Spice Of Life

Coming week Monday evening is going to be awesome. We're throwing a first time ever of Africa Comedy show in the capital city and I'm just a bit nervous. Though I kinda have crazy confidence on myself as MC for the event but lets say I'm nervous about attendance. I really wished to have an encouraging crowd as it would help along way in making event memorable. 

Anyways, I have got my fingers crossed on it and anything can happen. If your wandering around the 'Penh' on Monday 26th you may stop-by at Score Bar and Grill center on No. 7 street 282 behind THE PLACE gym center. We gonna feature upcoming artists and comedians all the way from great continent of Africa. Haha.. don't get too excited! because these guyz gonna crack shits outta ya ribs! I just can't wait for it. Come with a friend and family. Its free entry for everyone.

Power of Love

 

Love is like a careless seed planted without purpose or plan. It begins just like nothing ever going to happen. It comes when you least expect. It attract right person into your life when your falling. Love brings light and takes you from platonic understanding of love to real world. It exposes one to truth and self worth. 

To be continue...

Already Taken

Just to let you know you did change my world and have never met one like you which makes me wanna say only last word in mind in such a hurry. I feel am already taken and there's no more space for another to come in. I can't imagine a life without you and honestly wanna be forgiven for whatsoever damages I've cost between us and ready to make up for lost times. 

Missing you each day is purely an understatement 
Life has nearly become less interesting to me since you left
Sadness has taken over my mind time after time
Many tears being shared in my private room
While wearing a seemly happy face when friends are around
This whole stuffs has turned me into a strange person
Always awake when others asleep
If God does answers prayers then
I have prayed several prayers to God for on this
My hopes are not fading off and just keep hoping 
For something great to happen that would bring you back to me
Because feelings are too strong and good to mislead me 

To one N only Nicole Runck!!!
 

Without You

I am in love with you and I can't let you go. I know my friends, your friends even family may not support me, but I just can't find happiness without you. I do need you. I have openly admitted my mistakes and they weren't intentionally and would do anything to prove what am saying. You may not expect me chasing you for months since you decided to quit on me but I refuse to accept this as end road for us. I never stress over anyone but your worth than the stress right now.  Best thing ever Can't imagine my life right now without you, Nicole. You changed my life so much that each time my phone rings I wish it was you calling or text-ing.  If there's any prize I could pay to get you back then I am more than willing to take it. My hesitation does not make me weak but I am trying to let you see I have long love you and trying my hardest to make you see reason to change your mind return to us.  I can understand circumstances surrounding this now and with you all that painful memories could be erased and rewrite sweet and loving memories altogether. I'd love you to see those painful times as our rough patches we have to experience in order to value and cherish each other better than we have ever done.  I believe and know I can understand you lot better now and we could only get better and happier together. Not really sure how to feel about this but there's something in the way you move me after months of not seeing your smile. Makes me feel like I can't live without you and it takes me all the way...  I want you return to your rightful place in my heart Where I want you to stay and remain forever I want you to be my only option I want you to be last woman standing I want to take you with me to see mama I want to wake every morning with you beside me I miss sharing everything with you I miss your cooking and your smell I miss the way you call my name and make me turn right to you I miss coming home without you there to hug me and then tell me about your day. I miss our moment  I miss going swimming with you I miss your sense of reasoning I miss the true woman that you're full of amazing love and tenderness I miss your love ans care most This is us  Without you, I am nothing. With you, I am something. Together, we're everything and life would just keep smiling on us. I need you back in my life baby babe... It's about time!!!

Congratulations

Mr. and Mrs Shadrack Chibuzor Adjeokota

Ms Bethany and Shadrack has just been joined as husband and wife today and heaven's rejoicing over them. Stay tune for more photo updates!

Do You know?

Bethany and Shadarck

Cambodia is truly a kingdom of wonder and if you don't believe this maybe you will after reading summarized story of Bethany and Shadrack below: 

Bethany- A young and talented American lady who came to Phnom Penh, Cambodia few years back to further pursuit a career in fashion and creative arts and designs never knew what was set ahead of her and maybe meeting someone and getting wedded here was never a thought that may have crossed the mind. Life has it way of playing tricks on people. 

Mama Emeka looking like Hollywood star here

Shadrack- Also a young man from Nigeria who came to SEA as professional footballer to pursue career and later end up in Cambodia. He has played as professional with various clubs campaigning in CPL and currently working as personal trainer at muscles gym and fitness center.

Beautiful couple doing their stuffs in a bar

What brought them together- Regardless of any story anyone could believe or may have been told by this two beautiful people I believe love is the key factor that brought them together in far away strange land call Cambodia. It's the most cherished and beautiful thing in life. It knows no boundaries and it comes when you're not looking or expecting. It takes two people from miles away from home to be together and this two are obvious proof. It joins two family together and then give birth to new ones. Life goes round in circle when one found love and it worth everything.

The night she said I do to today's reality

Amazingly, this united hearts are going to be joined together as husband and wife in next 48 hours and phnom penh is going to stand still for them. This marriage is going to be special and one of it kind and we expect entire American family, African community and friends of friends to grace this august occasion as this two are joined together in holy matrimony base on God's love. He that found a wife as found a GOOD THING and this is why we're celebrating in grand style. 

Mama and Papa Emeka showing off

Here's my special message for you two: 
God has brought you here together to be united in his love, joined in Holy Matrimony with faith in God above, therefore let your faith guide your lives with a measure of God's grace. Keep building your marriage on the foundation of Christ. It will not crumble or give way through the daily pressure of life. But it will stand the test of time growing stronger day by day. Just keep your hearts truly united and joined as one when you pray. God's there to guide you two always and let him be the root of your union. God bless and I love you guys long time. Congratulations and wish you happy marriage life.

What God has joined together
No man/woman can put asunder.
May your day be made perfect
As God as ordained it to be
May everything go as smoothly
As God intends it to be for you
May it be a day to be remembered
And his glory shall be seen by many
In reflection of your union
As you two take to alter on Satrurday
Putting God first and he will ensure
Your marriage come first between his agenda
He that keep Israel never sleeps
Nor slumber and so it your marriage
God bless and I'm happy with you guys.
Congratulations!!!

Special dedication to: Ms Bethany and Shadrack as they're joined together as a couple. 

WHY???

Why I so much love you? Why I just can't let go of you? Why I have been so persistence? 

Because you came to give me hope
And help me cope when life pulls me down
You bring me around to see reasons to smile again

You teach me to care
You teach me to be there for others
And help me to share
You make me honest man
With kindness and best of love anyone could ask of

From you I learned true love
With grace from above
It's for you I live
And I want to give

You are the reason
That fills each moment in my life
When I hear love I think of you
You are my world and best friend too
You are best thing that ever happen to me
Life is worth celebrating with you beside me

I love you because you are so kind, thoughtful and caring
I love you because you are so pleasant, lovely and sharing
I love you because you make my life colorful
I love you because no one ever kisses my sweat to taste how salty it is
I love you because you have gone over limit to see us happy together
I love you because you are a great cook and your food taste best
I love you because you are beautiful and amazing person
I love you because you made me the man I am today

Thank you!

Specially dedicated to: Nicole Runck

Mistakes

You are a seed of sadness in people's life
You bring with you fruit of hard time to cause people's pain
Why do you even exist?
Why has God not ceased your existence?
Maybe I do know now!
To teach me lessons and learn from it
To make me realize facts of life
To make me wiser and stronger
To make me treat and respect people and their opinion
To make me love and appreciate those who show me one
No wonder people say make mistakes but always learn from them
Because it makes you a better person.

Thank you and lessons learned now!

25 ways to know he loves you without saying it

For girls, saying ‘I love you’ is the biggest sign of commitment in a relationship. And girls love feeling reassured every now and then.

But for guys, saying ‘I love you’ the first few times is important. Beyond that, compatibility and understanding matters more than anything else.

If your boyfriend or husband doesn't express his romantic side as often as you’d like him to, it doesn't mean he’s getting bored of you. He may actually be indulging in many other ways to express his true love for you. But are you really noticing it?

If you really want to know just how much your man loves you, stop letting words play the important part. Instead, watch his behavior and use these 25 signs he loves you to read his mind.

It’ll help you understand your man better and even make you see just how much he really loves you!

So does your guy really love you, even if he doesn't express his love through words? Find out here.

#1 He remembers what you say. A guy who’s in love with a girl always listens to her and remembers what she says, even if it’s something trivial because he takes her seriously.

#2 He’s chivalrous and treats you like a lady. A guy is chivalrous to a girl when he cares about what she thinks of his behavior. If your guy doesn't care about you, he wouldn't care what you think of his behavior.

#3 He takes care of your needs. If your man truly loves you, he’d always look for little ways to make your life better, be it about covering you with a blanket when you’re cold, charging your cell phone even when you don’t ask him, or serving you the better piece of chicken when you’re not looking.

#4 You’re always a part of his big plan in life. He speaks about his life and his dreams with you, and you always have a prominent place in all his future plans.

#5 He holds your hand instinctively when you’re in a crowd, or places his hand on your back while crossing the street. This is a reflex action that neither of you may realize. If a guy loves you, he’d definitely want to protect you and reassure you.

#6 He values your opinions a lot and doesn't take any important decisions about his own life without hearing your opinions and having a discussion with you.

#7 He wraps his hands around you or stands closer to you when you’re talking to some other guys and having a good laugh. It’s his way of letting the world know that you’re the one he loves and every other guy should back away.

#8 He uses the word “we” instead of saying “I” or “Me” while talking and doesn't even realize it.

#9 He’s very protective of you. If you’re taking a trip by yourself or even if you’re just driving out with friends, does he like receiving your call after you get to your destination? If your man can relax only after knowing that you’re safe, no matter where you are, he definitely has a special spot for you in his heart.

#10 He’s very interested in your life. If your man loves you, he’d always be eager to know everything about your day, including the little details.

#11 The helping hand. He’s always ready to offer a helping hand every time you ask him *even if he’s busy and he does it while whining and grumbling at the same time*.

#12 After the fight. He makes up after a fight just as much as you make up with him. And at times, he even swallows his pride and apologizes first even if it’s not his fault in any manner.

#13 He keeps you updated. He keeps you informed about his life and what he’s up to even though he knows he has no obligation to do so.

#14 He respects you and treats you with a lot of respect. He doesn't stare at other girls when you’re around, neither does he cut you in the middle of a conversation.

#15 You’re the last person he speaks to or texts at night. If he loves you, you’d be the first and last thing on his mind every time he wakes up or goes to sleep.

#16 He sacrifices his happiness to see you happy. It could be something as small as choosing a restaurant for dinner or giving you the fluffier pillow or something way bigger that can impact his life.

#17 He makes a lot of effort to be liked by your friends and family. He cares about what your friends and family think of him and he also understands that their impression of him will affect your relationship with your friends and family.

#18 He can’t stay mad at you for any reason for more than a couple of hours. People in love can’t stay mad at each other for long, it hurts both lovers too much. So if he takes the effort to apologize or accept your apology, he really does care about you and your feelings.

#19 He talks a lot. If a guy loves you, you’d find that he opens up really easily to you and talks a lot about everything, be it his life, his plans, his work or even about how annoying his friends really are.

#20 He loves spending time with you. He goes out of his way to be with you. And if he has to cancel a date for any genuine reason, he’d do everything it takes to make it up to you on the next date.

#21 He stands up for you, no matter what you've done and no matter where he is. A man who truly loves his woman will stand by her side even if she’s on the wrong. He may criticize you in private, but never ever in public.
#22 Making a choice. If he has to choose between you and anything else in the world, he’d choose you in a flash without even thinking, because he doesn't need to weigh any options there.

#23 He never forgets your special days, be it your birthday or anniversaries or a big day at work. And he goes out of his way to help you prepare for any big days or events in your life.

#24 He doesn't get annoyed with you even if he’s busy and you tease him or fool around with him.

#25 At a social gathering, he never gives any girl more attention than he gives you, even if he meets a celebrity.

Don’t jump to conclusions about your man’s love for you. After all, most men aren't the biggest romantics. But they do have really big hearts that’s full of love for you and you alone

Source: hotnaijanews

My Boo (Nicole)

I can't handle it

I just can't handle going through a day without you in my life Nicole. I love you so much and can't afford to loose you.

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My confession!

I don't know what to do to bring you back and happy

Your worth waiting for

Mistakes

Mistakes are part of being human and we cannot avoid making one in everyday life. They're errors in actions, calculations, opinions or judgement caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge or situation. I have made terrible mistakes and when I realized them I quickly admit them and then try to make an amend for everything. There's no perfect being anywhere in the world and people should try to forgive those who wronged them.

 

To err is human and to forgive is divine as people would always say. We should learn to forgive anyone if he/she actually make an effort on following steps below:

a- admit the wrong done and apologize for it

b- express how remorseful he/she feels and taking responsibility of it all.

c- making effort to repair the situation

d- asking forgiveness in order to move on. 

"Forgive those who wronged you so you'd be forgiven when you make your own mistake"

Just as human mistakes can come from anyone else and if you can not forgive those who wronged you now what happens when you make your own mistakes? Forgiving people can be emotionally challenging and time consuming especially with those you entrusted so much to but try your hardest to forgive. It's reduces burden in your heart and also other person. 

This remind me of you

My desire for you still remain and nothing is gonna change it even if the sky is falling down. Your irreplaceable when it comes to what keeps my heart happy and healthy. I miss you and just eight weeks away from you seems like eight years. All I ever want is you because in your arms am well wrapped and protected.

Special song dedication to Nicolepidia

Dictionary!

Dear Nicole, your like a dictionary- You add meaning to my life each day and your just a perfect dream that I've always wanted. Your so adorable in my eyes!

You've been so good with me and can't take my eyes off you sweetheart 

Our first Naija Independent Party together in 2012

I can't love myself so much so I need you to love me

No one makes me laugh like you do and miss laughing with you.
You and I will always be unfinished business

Your just the perfect dancing mate ever

Grow old along with me.The best is yet to come. Kiss <3

Believe!

  

Life's not bed of roses so does relationships. Do not expect everything to go nicely like when you first started dating. There's going to be some challenges as you get on discovering each others and adapting to changes in order to see things working out fine for you two. Sure it's going to be hard at this stage and you maybe discourage if your faith is not strong enough for what's set ahead of you. One of basic requirement for this is tolerant and patience. You got to learn how to absorb short comings. Try to understand and support each others. Life does not give us what we desire life answers us according to demand we place on it. Stand up for what you believe is right then fight for it. Whatever is not worth fighting for is not worth crying. Follow your heart because only you understand and can relate to it better. 

Don't give up

Hello you,
Do you sometime think or feel there's no hope of finding someone right for you? Or practically you have given up on true love? Well, there's no such thing as giving up in life and so it is for love. We face different challenges trying to find right person for us and right person for you is just about to surface only if you don't give up. Take your past experience as a lesson and learn from it then try to move on. We're all victims of love falling for wrong people so we could retrace our steps back to rightful person you were made for. Don't give up stand up to take a bold step forward. Keep smiling and be nice to people around you. Say to yourself your beautiful or handsome. Whoever dumped you before left because he or she never realized your real you and when the rightful person comes you would begin to feel amazing and loving again. Those who give up on love never end up finding one rather depression embraces in the face therefore true inner happiness is destroyed.

Quitters never win and winners' are not quitters