Mother's Love

Some how I realize this may cause or raise some controversy- but at least it's a personal opinion. Having a smooth relationship (one with less problems because there are no relationships without it) begins with kind of relationship people have had with their mothers. Our lives practically begins with mother. They teach and guide us through most things we know today and some mothers go extra miles to see her kids being happy. At some point I would paused and think what could life has been for me without my mom.

A mother is someone who loves unconditionally and places her children's demand above hers on personal level and not only with words but with astonishing back up actions. 

She has gone extra miles for me and my siblings even when it comes with pains or bit uncomfortable for her. She quit personal dreams and pursued ones for family, got into debt so I and my sibling could have food to eat, she was called names trying to earn a living for us, she got worried whenever we got into trouble and many sleepless nights she had thinking how I could make my dream of being a professional in my career. She is such a mother that supports her kids in any way possible. She never discriminate or criticize a child without a good cause. 

  Its a known facts that all things truly grows better with a mother beside us. Just imagining if I was borne without knowing my mom! Life would be a living hell and I'm so sure of this. Think of breast feeding, who would have been so kind enough to do that for me? When things aren't going well for me she has always been there. When my dad was wasn't showing much concern about us it was her who make sure everything went well. When people outside said some mean things to hurt us she say great things to cheer us up. When someone called me failure because I did badly at school she says I know you can rise above this again if you keep trying. No one encourages me like her and she truly cares about my well-being until recent time.

When it comes to love, Mom's the word. For all the ways you have helped me grow, I want to say I love you so much and I miss you mom

She once told me to always try to be nice and respectful to mothers, women, girls whether or not they are people I know and most importantly when I get involve in relationship with a girl. I remember she further said a man's life is in hands of a woman his married to or whatsoever and she decides whether or not she wants her home being a happy home however I stubbornly disagreed with her then and she said you won't know this until you become a grown man which I am now and have understood mysteries behind her saying. Indeed, mothers are essentially great influence to child's life.
Regardless of what anyone think or say, my mom is the best in whole wide world and I count it huge privilege to have been borne by her. She made me who I am and what I am today. I will always be proud of her

We cannot over power things that are natural neither can they be changed but I could, I would ask God to please send back my beloved mother whose death took a way from me on early wakes of 2nd of March 2012. That day has been saddest ever in my life. This is dedicated to my beloved mom Alice (refused to refer to you as late cause you live in me always) and to say I love you mom and will always do until we meet again. I miss you and only God knows why this has become our fate now. I will be praying for your soul to rest in bosom of the Lord-Amen!