Life is a lesson and the more we live the more we learn and one can't quit learning until number of days in this world are over. Sometimes you may wish your days has been elapsed and seriously want to disappear. Everything around me are wrecked, life isn't going pretty well, work is funny and plans are not going as expected either. Should I call myself a failure or is it just life not being fair to me? Why are others making it within shorter period of time and I am not? Why am I not succeeding in my plans and relationship? Marriage and friendship?
Well, if these questions are ranging all a round you more often then you definitely need some time off to reorganize your life and set your priorities straight. Life is full of obstacles and ability to stay firm and focus at the point of these obstacles is what keeps you going and finding lasting solutions to them all. There's no single human in this world without stress or obstacles. We all have things making us feel a bit worried so its inevitable for humans with stress.
Bad time are trials (test) times and if you are not strong enough you are going to loose hope virtually in everything and life will seem non interesting- not finding a single reason to live. Funny enough, bad times are in-between success and deadline. The situation around you prevent you from seeing or looking beyond what's happening and how possible you could turn things around for good. No matter how bad a situation or condition may be there is always an escaping route only if you could stop worrying and start thinking way forward out of your predicaments.
Successful people in our world today are all those who turned their bad times into something that led them to where they are today. There are no secrets to this if you may ask. Just find out what they did and you apply same principles then you will be reaping same results if not more.
Do you know when life totally turn with you to face endless wall where you have no one or place to turn to, no shoulders to lean on or even someone to listen to whatsoever happening with you. That's ugly time! Its a bit more worse than bad time and anyone at this point are seemly desperate and vulnerable to anything. A time in your relationship where you wanted out completely and never want to reflect on some good times and wish whole memories erased off your mind. At this stage, decision made are base on situation approach without proper or thorough considerations of your partner.
Seriously I know the true feeling because I've been there just like you but don't make haste in making a major decision that may leave you later with no options. Friends around you may completely not be supportive as many may be giving you pressure to either get rid of person stressing you out to find someone else as the usual advise offer by those around you however there's a major catastrophic awaiting you ahead.
Starting all over is has not been easily and willingness to do is not always there, not when you just got off a relationship you wished it never ended. However, try to see if there are ways possible to fix things up for the better and work on building the trust again between your partner. There is nothing that has gone wrong without a solution ahead of it. Two heads are better than one. Seek each other opinions and try to figure out way out in order to rediscover your true happiness again and be live happily together. There is no perfect one for you out there and if you are not ready to take a trial with somebody nobody is ready to take one with you either. Life is in measure, what you offer others is exact thing you get in return- remember the law of karma!
Good times, although lasting times but they come almost at ending point. Many that have gone through hard times wished they spend those hard times as good times. Good will come after talking things through with your partner on rising issues between you two. Some people are very good at blaming partners for whatsoever happening and not admitting faults. I used to be this way of not accepting or agreeing to my faults with people not just partner. I got out of this mentality when a good friend spoke to me extensively with cool minded ideas under conducive environment. My friend pointed out how easy it is when you can develop a listening ears to listen to your partners. Most people in relationships lack this quality. You have got to listen and not arguing. Allow your partner to air view point. No one is an island of relationship and for one to have healthy relationship listening ears is a principle requirement.
Your partner would appreciate you more if you would listen and contributes positively at when needed. Say less and listen much. Ignore the incident and think of the good times to work on present issue in order to rediscover right tune of your relationship again.
Good times never fails and there are final cures to any sour time in relationship. Don't avoid someone you truly love thinking that's better choice of getting over issues (him/her). NO! It worsen it and you get hurt deep inside of you. There's no true happiness like being with someone you truly care about and having feelings of always staying around that person. Good times does come with great excitement and eagerness to stick to what you so much believe in.
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