Just call or message to say 'I miss you' 'How are you', Hope everything is fine', 'I'll be home late', I'm just thinking about you', 'How are you doing'...In relationship, keeping in touch is more than a requirement despite busy day at work place. Taking few minutes off to send a message, brief telephone, email or note to someone who truly care about you are few among seemly common things that keep relationships going. Your partner stays worried if he/she never hear anything about you for hours or even a day.
To build a stress free relationship with someone, you make sure you create at least a channel of communication between you and those that cares about you. Let them know your where about and current up to date incidents of your daily dealings.
Unnecessary worries and tension crouch supposedly relationship between or among people. Develop a listening habit in order to listen to them whenever issue arises, show concern on when needed, respond and return phone calls, exchange visit, know what's happening on both parties lives, discuss issues first before telling best friends. Seek each other opinion and don't take the risk of making wholesome decision alone that affects both of you.
Don't use weakness of your partner against him or her rather try to work on them in bringing your partner to standard that suits your taste if there's any such thing going on. People have come from different places, region, culture, background, ethnicity and least I forget religion! In all of these, learn to respect the differences and don't make the mistake of condemning one. Recognize the difference and try to see if its something you handle now or in future.
Its not also a must every relationship must work out fine with people involve no matter how happy they look or appear now. Statistics has it that 40% of every 100% relationship ends in marriages and 45% in long time relationships and 15% just didn't go anywhere. Therefore, I would advise here that people should not expect too much in a relationship until extreme lines have been crossed and future seems clearer.
To draw the curtain, parties must stay committed at 50-50 level to whatever interest that have brought them together in order to enjoy a stress free relationship. Above all, honesty is the watch word!

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